Individual Coaching for Women

“If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are
you gonna love somebody else?”

– RuPaul

Unhappy. Unfulfilled. Uninspired.

And ‘unadequate’… not really a word, but you get the idea.

I’m watching others and feel like they have it easy. Like they got a how-to-do-life manual, and I didn’t.

I drink some wine, buy new clothes, get a new project at work… these are bandaids. It’s just a matter of time before the general unease and dissatisfaction return.

It’s like I can’t be pleased. I don’t want to leave the house. I’m so afraid to be alone and afraid I’ll miss out that I don’t want to go home.

It’s hard for me to make a decision. When I do, I’m pretty sure it was the wrong one.

Some days, it’s hard for me to do the bare minimum. Other days I get everything done, but it’s frantic and brutal to keep up. Where’s the balance?

My thoughts are nonstop.

I’m not giving my entire self to any one thing or person. I want to be present, but I just can’t seem to figure out how.

I’ve got a great sense of humor; people think I am fine and have it all together. But the laughter is covering up something. Something deeper.

People ask how I am… ”Fine, can’t complain!” But my throat barely opens enough for me to squeak out the words. If I even hint at how I’m really feeling, I’ll dissolve into a puddle of my tears.

My relationships are shallow, and it’s exhausting.

Maybe I’m making too a big deal of all this. I mean, life is hard, right?

The thought of changing scares me. It feels like too much. Maybe things aren’t that bad?

But your true, inner self knows. And it’s hard to escape that nagging feeling. You decide you’ll just make the most of things, but you can’t ignore that the little voice keeps resurfacing.

Ugh, the familiar roller coaster – “I can’t keep doing life this way! I want more!” Followed by “I’m overreacting. Maybe this is just as good as it gets. At least it’s familiar.”

I stay busy with the back and forth and make no actual progress. The longer I remain in limbo, the harder it is to change. Meanwhile, I’m watching life pass me by. Watching others enjoy things I want while I continue to let fear hold me back.

Another day, month, year will pass regardless if you change. What will you do with this time? More of the same, or something to help yourself feel better?

You are stronger than you realize.

Individual life coaching can help you become who you were meant to be.

Together, we will identify your significant barriers, increase awareness around your resistance, pinpoint viable solutions, and celebrate your victories.

Call me today at (512) 761-8712, and let’s get started.

You will feel more content with life, yourself, and your relationships.